Consider a building standing on only one pillar, and someone pulls that pillar out. The results are pretty obvious. The building will fall shortly into pieces.
Man and woman are the two wheels of a car. If anyone of the wheel gets out of order, the vehicle will not function properly. The left wheel can’t perform the right wheel’s task and vice versa. It is a mainly spread belief that speed has fastened lives with time, and to cope with this issue, men and women have to work together. There is no doubt about that. Men and women should work together.
Consider if an electrical engineer is asked to operate a person for his injury. Will the engineer be able to do that?
The answer is No.
Two types of women usually exist in society. One is a working woman, and the other is a housewife. The Western world is very interested in the fact that women should work and support their families financially, along with different management roles as housewives. The West has created a mindset that they do nothing if they depend on others. If a woman is not earning money for her home, she is just a burden on a man’s finances. So, to lift this burden, the woman should work with the man.
To earn is not the woman’s duty; the man is responsible for the financial sector of a family. A woman is supposed to be loyal, take care of the household work, and foster her children because most children spend their early stages at home with their mothers. So, it is easier for a mother to understand her child’s needs and behaviour than the father.
There are many myths in our society regarding woman’s work. If a woman is educated or has any degree, she should work. If she does not work, what is the purpose of her education, and why did she study? This is the most commonly followed myth of our society that education and job are interlinked, and one of the purposes of education is to earn.
That’s not simply true. Education is linked with personality development. One who is educated becomes aware of life’s ups and downs and becomes ethically well-organized.
The woman is something related to a precious, respectful, and sensitive thing that must be hidden.
- A woman’s primary purpose is to shape the upcoming generations. A woman is naturally a good teacher, and one of the famous sayings is A Child First School is Mother’s Lap. Whatever the child learns from this school will be reflected for the rest of his life.
- A woman is also a housekeeper. A woman has a healing nature, so for all the family men, whenever they return home, the woman (either mother, sister, or wife) will be present for their moral support, health, and appreciation.
- A woman also has a calm mind that can help a man while taking a decision. Mostly, a man is aggressive and takes decisions after getting stuck or irritated by something or takes decisions with a mind that is fed up with working continuously. So, if a man needs suggestions, a woman’s calmness is always there to evaluate his ideas.
Lets discuss the effects
- Every woman has a family whether she is working or not. If a woman is working, she will ignore her family. For Example, a wife with two children visits the office daily. Her children need to get her proper time. Both parents return home after working throughout the day, not knowing what their children did in their absence. Children mostly demand attention and love from their parents. If neither of the parents is available for this, the children will be psychologically affected, which will harm their personalities.
- Work will depart love between man and woman. Consider husband and wife. If a wife works with her husband, she will think about what her husband does for her. She is earning herself to fulfil her needs. This will remove the love and will create a sense of independence. Both men and women will consider themselves independent. So, as a result, they will only be grateful for the other’s effort.
- The family system will be disturbed. Both males and females will have no time for each other to sit together or with their children. So, a communication gap will be created, and this will further lead to different miss understandings.
- Primarily, women work in places where men are also working. This will create a sense of attraction for both, and there are chances that they might fall into a negative relationship that will affect their families, resulting in divorce and separation.
- Women mostly face issues of harassment in workplaces. So, whenever a woman steps out of her home, she will be a victim of such problems, which can result in various negative impacts on society.
The World Risk Poll finds that nearly 11 percent of female workers have experienced workplace violence and harassment.
- The main task of a woman is to take care of the house and her children. If a working woman spends most of her functions outside her house and away from her children, how can she work for her children’s development?
- Further, someone has to be at home, and a woman is the best one to be. The woman amazingly manages the daily housework, maintenance, and other issues because they are naturally trained for this.
It is believed that if a woman is not allowed to work, she should not study. That’s very unethical. Educated moms can nurture their children in a significant way. Women should not work does not mean a woman can’t study. She must study. The only problem while studying is that they choose professions or subjects which are not for them.
For Example: Consider a woman working as a civil or electrical engineer. These are not the professions that a woman should pursue. They can be good teachers, doctors, nurses, trainers for young girls, and many more to discuss.
The main problem of women in our society is that they have been along with men in many works that are not according to their nature, or they are not meant for this.
A question that can be in everyone’s mind, if a woman is working in other fields else than nursing, medicine, or teaching, then she can’t spend time with her children or can’t develop them properly, so how is child development possible for women working as teachers, nurses and doctors. This is a very interesting counter-question. The answer is that we must have daycare centres where experienced women should care for the children whose moms work as teachers, nurses, doctors, and many other noble jobs. These daycare centres can recover child development issues to a great extent.
Lastly, “Say No To A Working Woman” is neither a critical statement nor an article written to criticize women. The central theme of this article is a one-liner:
” A woman is precious, and precious things should be in a safe place rather than being in everyone’s access; please recognize your owner, your importance, and you are so precious that you must be covered.”